In order to win a girl back, you have to NOT do a number of very common things. In fact, most all guys make these same mistakes, over and over and over again. You’re about to learn secrets 95% of men will never know about getting their girl back.
Trying to buy back her love. Buying her flowers, earings or anything of that nature.
You are demonstrating lower value and desperation when you try and buy a woman’s love. Only low value men have to demonstrate their “value” with material possessions. The more effort you put into her, the further away you will push her.
Begging her to come back and telling her you’ll “change”. As the David DeAngelo quote says, “Attraction is not a choice”. Once a woman has lost attraction for you, you need to re-create it. You cannot create attraction by asking or begging. These efforts will only cause her to become even more repulsed by you. She will essentially lose even more attraction.
Women do not respond to logical attempts or reasons to continue the relationship. There is only one reason to continue a relationship and that is raw attraction.
Acting depressed and hurt so she will feel sorry for you. Again this will only cause her to lose even more attraction for you. Attraction does not work like that! You’re simply not being the guy you used to be. You need to realize that a woman will never be attracted to a needy, insecure man.
Always doing what she wanted you to do and following her lead. Women are genetically programmed to be attracted to men who lead. They don’t want a puppy dog for a boyfriend.
Being overly nice. When you’re “too nice” to her she knows you’ve got an agenda (win her back) and that alone is unattractive. She will see right through your little ploy to win her back and it will only repulse her further.
So now that you know what not to do and the things you’re doing to push her away, what’s left to do? How can you re-create attraction with her? Well first of all, you can breathe a sigh of relief because there are very powerful, specific things you can do to re-create attraction with her. The secret? Download Matt Huston’s Ex(Squared) System today!